Welcome to the Journey
Most people understand the concept of Pick Up Artists (PUA's), but what most do not know is there is a thriving, well trained, disiplined and organized community where men seek to truly become masters at social interactions with women.
This community was brought into the public eye with the release of Neil Strauss'es infamout book called "The Game". There are literally hundreds of men who study, train and practice techniques designed to make the modern day Casanova's. Armed with extensive amounts of knowledge in areas such as NLP (neuro linguistic programming), body language and inner-game, these techniques have been field test thousands of times and being a PUA is no longer a "natural" occurance, but one achieved through extensive training and testing. It is quite literally akin to having a PHD in meeting women.
This website is my social study on going from an AFP (a term in the community for Average Frustrated Chump) to PUA. With this industry being a financial windfall for so-called Guru's I wanted to test various techniques and provide real non-biased feedback on my results.
For the record, I am in a long-term relationship so am not trying to meet women for any reason other than debunking all the hype and seeing how real this really is. If it turns out to be effective, I hope it provides motivation and hope for those guys out there that really want to meet someone great.
Why Is This Important
There are lots of great guys out there who never really get a chance to meet their perfect someone and often settle for whomever they can get because they lack the initial social skills to attract their ideal partners. The difference between men who are successful with women and those who are not has very little to do with looks... I hope that inspires some hope to you.
Why Choose Online Dating Rather Than Normal Dating?
Firstly, one of the major parts of learning PUA is approaching women, I mean alot of women and field testing your techniques etc to get comfortable approaching. The problem with many men is the fear of approaching. Online dating is easier to approach people and may be a better starting point. I am not comfortable with approaching people myself, and even doing it online was freaky, but at least I had the knowledge that it was only for fun as I am not looking to meet anyone.
Secondly, with the busy lives we lead, online dating is cheaper, faster and far more convenient.
Third, there is fewer so-called gurus selling online dating material which makes it easier for me. I don't have to wade through tons of material, courses etc and try and determine which ones seem the most effective. It saves me time and money.
Well, I hope anyone who reads this enjoys the information and check back and see the progress.